Today is November 19th, which is an essential moment in my life with the shift into Aquarius. I have been training for this day for a decade and a half. I’ve lived in a state of potential during this time and now I am shifting out of it into reality. Not to say I haven’t achieved or moved forward—far from it. But I’ve been suspended in the possibility of who I could be, what might unfold, and where the journey might take me. It’s intoxicating, that space of dreaming where everything feels limitless, unburdened by the weight of reality. Today is the day it comes into full frontal focus.
Here’s the thing: possibility without action is a mirage. It feels real but leaves you parched. And today, the big realization hit me: I’ve been living in that space—not fully realized, not fully grounded, but endlessly circling the potential of what could be.
"I no longer want to live in possibility. I am brilliant, fully realized. I understand everything about myself, and I’ve chosen key, strategic paths to move forward today." – Rache Brand
That’s the shift and it's the TRUTH I live in. It’s not about endless potential anymore; it’s about stepping into the fullness of who I am and letting that guide the way.
The Hard Truth of the Work of Living Realized
As James Clear said, "You do not rise to the level of your goals; you fall to the level of your systems." Over the past 16 years, I’ve been building that system—my personal foundation. It started in 2008, when I felt a shift, an inkling that something was different about me, about my purpose. I didn’t know what it was yet, but I knew it was there. That quiet knowing was profound, but it wasn’t anchored. It wasn’t real. Not yet.
Since then, I’ve done the work. Resilience training. Self-awareness. Breaking through limiting beliefs and deconstructing the narratives I’d built about what was possible for me. I tested myself over and over—proving my capabilities not just to others but, most importantly, to myself.
Still, for much of that time, I wasn’t fully realized. I was in a constant state of becoming, and while that’s a beautiful process, it’s not the same as being. There’s a time to dream, and there’s a time to embody. Today, I know I’ve crossed the threshold. I’ve stepped into the being.
The Challenge of Misaligned Spaces
Part of why it took me so long to evolve fully was the environments I placed myself in. I spent years working in finance, a world that is, to put it mildly, at odds with a knowing, evolving human. It’s a space where empathy and connection are often swallowed whole by greed and competition.
To borrow from Viktor Frankl, “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” I couldn’t change finance, but I could choose how I navigated it. And I chose to survive it, learning all the while how to integrate my inner knowing into that hostile space. It wasn’t easy, but it taught me to discern alignment and misalignment. It showed me what it feels like to live out of sync with my truth—and how unsustainable that is.
The Shift from Possibility to Being Realized
The big shift for me today is this: I no longer want to live in possibility. I’ve done the work. I’ve evolved. I know who I am, what I stand for, and where I’m going. And I’m not here to convince anyone else to join me on this path.
"You’re either on the roster or you’re not. There’s no more space for 'maybe.' Each of those on the Superstruct team have done the work.
We know who we are, and we are not here to nurture anyone into alignment with our vision." – Rache Brand
This clarity isn’t about being unkind—it’s about protecting our energy and focusing on building with those who are ready to align. In addition, there is limited time in our life – we don't have years to hymn and haw on this effort; we need to expeditiously move through our opportunity to create change.
Anything outside of the path is actually a distraction and is pulling from our energy and ability to accelerate.
The Danger of Living in Potential
Potential is seductive, but it’s also a trap. It keeps you stuck in the idea of what could be, rather than grounding yourself in what is. I’ve seen it in relationships, falling for the idea of a person rather than the reality of who they are. I’ve done it in business, keeping pipelines open with people who were never going to commit, clinging to the hope that they’d come around.
Get to a "yes" or a "no." That's the key to sales. That's the key to relationships. Never live in the land of gray.
But no more. I’m done nurturing people to align with our vision. The time has come to honor what is rather than what might be.
Living in possibility burns bridges, and I refuse to keep burning the bridges down. It's about rebuilding and that comes through strength, clarity and knowing your power.” – Rache Brand
That realization has been transformative for me. I’ve learned that waiting on others, hoping they’ll see my vision, only holds me back. The world moves forward, and I’m ready to move with it.
If you are moving forward and someone is holding you back, and you choose to move on, that person or company will likely never meet you where you are again. Each of us continues to evolve and grow. So that person will always be behind on the journey. It requires us to set the intention, paving the path forward, but we are ultimately going to be light years ahead in another dimension. It's a RARE person who can leapfrog to where you are growing to; really accelerating growth without limits. I am holding space for this to happen with everyone and every business. The intention is there.
Fully Baked and Moving Forward
This new chapter of my life is about being fully realized—whole, complete, and unapologetically aligned with my truth. It’s about creating with clarity and purpose, not waiting for others to catch up. It’s about knowing that I’ve done the work and trusting that the right people, opportunities, and paths will meet me where I am.
“I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept,” as Angela Davis so perfectly put it. And that’s exactly where I am: living fully realized, fully grounded, fully present.
If you’re ready to meet me here, I welcome you with open arms. The work is done. The time is now. Let’s move forward.
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